henstomper:

im not gonna like stop using this site or anything but i can pretty confidently say this is one of the dumbest moves ive seen a site make in a while. instead of fixing the actual problems with their website ie pornbots on every fucking post, actual pedophiles, theyre just going to ban everything horny which most likely isnt going to solve those problems and is going to hurt lots of sex workers and artists as well as drive people off the site

culdeefell:

cherrybmblby:

traggotry:

Thomas Sandals: heck

30 year old Harry Potter stans:

Honestly? I’m not a Thomas Sanders fan. Haven’t been for ages. But god fucking damn it, the guy is spreading positivity and I don’t think he’s ever been anything but openly, unabashedly wholesome. His whole brand is based on being wholesome.

Instead of bashing on people who draw fetish porn of ten-year-olds or ship real people, you go out of your way to insult someone whose reputation depends on being nice and his fans.

Let people be wholesome. Assholes.

ninja-guy-dan:

>Toby never makes gender as anything more than part of the character, making kris and frisk identify with they/them and all the other characters with explicit pronouns
>Ralsei calls himself a boy
>lancer calls him a kind boy
I guess because he looks too feminine hes a girl huh, truly my minds eye has been open.
Also this aint it chief

Deflecting criticism with “H-HAHA YOU’RE JUST A TRIGGERED SJW” is not it chief

the-real-seebs:

naamahdarling:

wetwareproblem:

geekandmisandry:

An autistic friend of mine just said this to me “The harder I work at communication the more people expect from me and the less they are willing to compromise.” and it is the most fucking heartbreaking thing I’ve heard.

This is very much a thing, though – and I’m sure people across the board with other disabilities can verify that it happens to them, too.

People will turn any progress you make toward being “normal” – no matter how straining or difficult it is for you, no matter how little it actually helps you – as either inspiration porn, or proof that you don’t really need accommodations, you just need to “apply yourself! :)))))”

YUP

i’ve had good luck with telling them how much effort it is, and using analogies to express things. my favorite go-to example is “you actually can walk on a sprained ankle, doesn’t make it a good idea”.